A Thanksgiving Story… and the Perfect Cup of Tea
The holiday season is fast approaching, beginning with Thanksgiving—a time filled with memories, both good and… memorable.
For me, Thanksgiving has always been a bit intimidating. Cooking and entertaining have never quite been my strong suit.
Still, as I sip my tea, one particular Thanksgiving comes to mind.

A Bold (and Questionable) Decision
Early in our marriage, my husband and I made a bold decision:
We would host Thanksgiving dinner.
After all, I had successfully hosted tea parties before. How hard could it be?
(Famous last words.)
Tea vs. Cooking
Making tea has always felt simple and manageable:
- Heat the water
- Warm the teapot
- Add the leaves
- Steep to perfection
Even serving tea-time treats like sandwiches and desserts was comfortably within my abilities.
Cooking, on the other hand, was a different story entirely.
Recipes seemed full of mysteries:
- Teaspoons vs. tablespoons
- Ounces vs. quarts
- Instructions that might as well have been written in another language
And then there were the missing ingredients—always something I didn’t have on hand.
Not to mention the inevitable flour clouds and the constant urge to clean everything mid-process.
The Perfect Storm
Our Thanksgiving challenge was made even more interesting by a few additional factors:
- We were cooking at an elevation of over 5,000 feet (without adjusting for it)
- My new in-laws were watching the entire process unfold
- We were attempting to follow a televised guide to the “perfect turkey”
- The turkey was… not entirely thawed
- The kitchen was, shall we say, very compact
In short, everything that could complicate the experience did.
The Menu
To our credit, we tried to keep things simple:
- Turkey and dressing
- Mashed potatoes
- Gravy
- Green bean casserole
- Cranberry sauce
- Crescent rolls
- Pumpkin pie with whipped cream
- And, of course, a large pot of tea
(Some dishes, as everyone knows, are non-negotiable.)
The Results
Things did not go exactly as planned.
The meal was served two hours late—thanks largely to our failure to adjust cooking times for altitude.
Dishes needed to be reheated. Some required last-minute fixes. And the whole process likely provided plenty of entertainment for onlookers.
To their credit, our guests were gracious, responding with polite smiles, a few suppressed laughs, and only the occasional outright guffaw.
One Thing Went Right
Amid all the chaos, there was one clear success:
The tea was perfect.
No surprise there.
Some things you can count on.
Final Thoughts
These days, we’re a bit wiser.
Instead of hosting, we’re much more comfortable contributing—perhaps bringing a dessert and preparing the tea.
Because when all else fails, a good cup of tea still makes everything better.
Enjoy the holiday season!
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